Nobody really cares about your problems, excuses and made up obstacles that lie between you and your goals.
Yes, people close to you will listen and might help you, but everybody has their own isht to deal with on a day to day basis. They will prioritize putting out their own fires before they start helping others.
Don’t complain, just go ahead and try stuff, figure it out. You’re the only one who can make it happen. You don’t need permission. When you stop complaining, you start doing and helping others along the way, which has a massive ROI.